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About My Clients
You’ve been researching consensual non-monogamy—listening to the podcasts, following relationship influencers, and working through a stack of books on love and attachment. You’ve done the reading, the reflecting, and the exploring. Now, you’re realizing you want to open your monogamous relationship. But how do you bring this up with your partner? How do you approach the conversation with honesty, care, and the least amount of emotional harm? What might you need to feel ready?
How I Can Help You
I provide a safe, nonjudgmental space where you can explore these questions and more. Through the lens of Narrative therapy, I will help you examine the stories you’ve internalized about love, relationships, and commitment—dissecting problematic beliefs, societal shoulds, and uncovering your true values and desires. We will incorporate a harm reduction approach for navigating potential challenges with care, ensuring you feel empowered rather than overwhelmed. I will further help you build the skills and confidence to have partner conversations with clarity and compassion. Whether it’s understanding attachment styles, managing difficult emotions, or practicing what to say, we’ll work together so you can approach this transition into CNM with intention, respect, and a strong foundation for deeper connection.
Why I am a Good Fit for You
My approach is rooted in deep understanding, lived experience, and a commitment to creating an alliance where you feel truly heard. I know that exploring consensual non-monogamy isn’t just about logistics—it’s about identity, values, and the courage to have vulnerable conversations. Your relationship story is not set in stone. Together, we can explore new possibilities that align with your evolving identity and goals. I want to acknowledge that my work is focused on individuals, but I’m happy to collaborate with other providers, such as a couples therapist, to support your journey. If you'd like to connect, the best way to reach me is via email or by submitting the contact form on my website. I’d love to offer you a free initial consultation to see how we can work together.