Sexual Problems

A sexual problem, sometimes called a sexual dysfunction, is a problem during any phase of the sexual sexual act (such as desire, arousal or orgasm). Although many people experience trouble with sex at some point, it is a topic that many people are hesitant to discuss. There are a number of specific sexual disorders, including sexual desire disorders (low libido), sexual arousal disorders (inability to become aroused – erectile dysfunction or vaginal dryness, for example), orgasm disorders (delay or non-appearance of orgasms) and sexual pain disorders (painful intercourse, most commonly affecting women). A sexual problem can occur suddenly or develop slowly, over an extended period of time. The reasons for sexual problems can widely vary but may include factors such as fluctuating hormones, aging, stress, anxiety, depression, fatigue, diet, medications, illness or past sexual trauma. If you are dealing with sexual problems, a qualified professional therapist can help you identify the cause and help you develop ways to cope. Reach out to one of TherapyDen’s sexual problems experts today.

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I am currently obtaining my sex therapy certification through the Sexual Health Alliance (www.sexualhealthalliance.com), an AASECT-approved education program. I am a "sex-positive" therapist which means that I do not shame clients for ANY sexual issue they want to discuss.Contrary to what some believe, there’s nothing strange, deviant, or kinky about seeing a sex therapist. The bottom line is that people experience sexual problems and need a professional who specializes in that type of therapy.

— Darrin Pfannenstiel, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in Dallas, TX

Absolute sex addiction elite level expert, 26 years & 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery. Evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity/Cheating/Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding.

— Sex Addiction, Sexual Misbehavior, Infidelity Expert James Foley, Psychotherapist in Los Angeles, CA
 

I am working towards my certification in sex therapy including supporting clients in exploring low libido, desire discrepancy, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, kinks, fetish, healing from past sexual abuse to have a great and meaningful sexual life.

— Julie Williams, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in , CA

I work with individuals and couples looking to work on challenges related to sex & sexuality.

— Sarah Malavenda, Psychotherapist in Chicago, IL
 

Sex isn’t necessarily about intercourse, but it can be. You might be experiencing pain during sex or trouble ejaculating or keeping an erection. Shame or anxiety might be limiting your ability to enjoy sex. Or you might feel like sex has taken control of your life. When working with folks overcoming sexual challenges, I always aim to chase after pleasure, play and connection. Together we can help you reconnect to yourself and reclaim your sexual freedom.

— Greg Kilpatrick, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Pasadena, CA

Low/High Libido Desire discrepancy (one partner wants more frequent sex than the other) Improving sexual pleasure Sexual functioning concerns (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, anorgasmia, vaginismus) Out of control sexual behaviors/sex addiction Sexual or Gender Identity exploration Healing from sexual trauma Sexual kinks or fetishes Sexual insecurities or fears

— Kate Breslin, Clinical Social Worker in Denver, CO
 

I have additional training from the California Institute of Integral Studies in Sex Therapy and advanced supervision.

— Alyssa Doberstein, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Raleigh, NC

Sex therapy is unique for each individual based on your needs. A person does not need to have "sexual problems" to be in sex therapy. Some common reasons to seek out a sex therapist include: -Exploring sexual and/or gender identity -Erotic mismatch/discrepancy in desire levels or desires of partners -Increasing sexual pleasure and satisfaction -Destigmatizing sex and reducing sexual shame

— Anissa Bahrenburg, Sex Therapist in Portland, OR
 

I am a Certified Sex Therapist through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists . I offer a sex-positive approachs to address sexual concerns and enhance pleasure. I empower couples to embrace their desires, overcome challenges, and cultivate fulfilling sexual experiences. My goal is to create a supportive environment where couples can explore their sexuality confidently, authentically and joyously.

— Hayden Dover, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in San Diego, CA

Sexuality and Sexual Health and Functioning Self-Esteem around Sex and Communicating Needs in the Relationship Issues around Sexual Abuse & Sexual Trauma Specializing in Male sexuality and intimacy issues, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, delayed ejaculation.

— Adrian Scharfetter, Sex Therapist in Sacramento, CA
 

Pleasure is for everyone. First, reflecting on past influences or messaging will help you gain perspective on how you view sex and what ideas or biases you hold about sex and sexuality. Then, decide if those ideas still pertain to you today or if they are beliefs that you have left unquestioned. Question them and continue to question them. Last, make your own choices about how you want to exist as a sexual being in the world.

— Evan Kardon, Marriage & Family Therapist in Philadelphia, PA

I love talking about sex. I love helping people have great sex. Our society is filled with shame about our bodies and sex that many of my clients have never talked about it with anyone, including their sexual partners. Society has sexualized all touch and made it so people feel like sex is the only place they can be touched. Many of our relationship issues and stressors impact our sex lives and prevent us from feeling connected and fulfilled in our interactions. I'm also supportive of asexuality

— Tia (Christia) Young, Counselor
 

At PhIIRST, we have an integrated approach that includes modalities such as behavioral, cognitive, psychodynamic, and systemic therapy in resolving sexual problems. Though treatment can be done on an individual basis, we encourage the couple to work together. We offer sex education and sexual enrichment for couples who want to improve or enhance their sexual relationship, recapture lost sensuality, restructure sexuality after a life changing event, and become comfortable together.

— PhIIRST: Philadelphia Institute for Individual, Relational, & Sex Therapy, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Philadelphia, PA

I take you through the biochemistry of sex and explore with you the intersection between, sexuality, relationships, and addiction in your life. Its not for me to tell you how it is, its for me to give you the information and you can help me understand how what you are learning has manifested in your own life. Sexual problems can be resolved. If your sexual interests are getting in the way of your relationships, I am the guy you should call!

— John Kane, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Campbell, CA
 

I am currently in the process of becoming a sex therapist. I am comfortable discussing any sexual matter from impotency to kink and lifestyle. I will support you on your journey to discovering what works for you.

— Jocelyn Robinson, Licensed Professional Counselor Associate in Hurst, TX

Sex therapy is not just for couples! An important part of sex and relationships is being comfortable with yourself, your body, communication, and asking for what you want — or discussing what you don’t want. It can be daunting to discuss sexual issues with a partner due to both negative messages received within our and societal norms. I can help you to sort through your fears and biases regarding sex and relationships to give you the knowledge and power to discover sexual fulfillment.

— Leigha Ward, Clinical Psychologist in West Lake Hills, TX
 

I am an AASECT certified sex therapist. I am trained to treat a variety of sex-related issues including sexual dysfunction, sexual pain, lack of sex in relationship, the betrayal of infidelity, and open/consensually non-monogamous relationships. I also help those struggling in the aftermath of sex-related trauma. I particularly thrive helping relationships of all kinds find sexual fulfillment and emotional intimacy in their connection.

— Lee Kinsey, Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Boston, MA

Infidelity and Porn are big issues. But I am more concerned with the marital sexual experiences. Get the relationship and sex right and the other issues are much easier to deal with. Sex is a very pressured filled experience. It is a vulnerable and scary act, though it is intended to be fun and amazing in how it can extend our emotional intimacy, as God intended it to be.

— Monte Miller, Psychologist in Austin, TX
 

As an ASSECT Certified Sex Therapist, I am trained to work with a variety of sexual concerns including sexual desire discrepancy, difficulty with orgasm, erectile difficulties, pain during sex, living with Sexually Transmitted Infections, kink and BDSM, gender identity exploration, sexual identity exploration, sexual anxiety/sexual shame and more. I have advanced training in working with people who have experienced sexual trauma or childhood sexual abuse reclaim their sexuality.

— Kori Hennessy, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Minneapolis, MN