Luna Becerra-Lewis (They/Them)

As someone with ADHD, I utilize skills I have added to my tool belt as well as in my own education to find a solution that feels most supportive for you. Whether if it is psychoeducation on navigating life with ADHD, assessing for misdiagnoses and how symptoms overlap, or learning how to better cope with ADHD in general such as tackling RSD... you are not alone in this journey and can reframe it as a strength versus a weakness.

As a polyamorous person myself, I am well versed in supporting my own lived experiences with navigating polyamory in an ethical way. I have made my own mistakes, gone to couples counseling and learned how to be a better more proactive communicator. I enjoy working with couples as a kink-aware and sex positive therapist.

As someone who also struggles with intergenerational trauma compounded by C-PTSD, I believe it is important to address how this is not an easy feat to overcome. You are not defined by your trauma, nor are you at fault for years of oppression. The pain we carry can feel overwhelming and I utilize tools from various C-PTSD resources to help mitigate the pain and allow you to feel more empowered to be your best, most actualized self. The cycle ends here.

I am well versed in attachment theory and how that continues to impact our day to day life and how our relationships may still be impacted by our ability to show up for one another. Your attachment is not permanent and can change over time with your ability to self soothe, implement coping skills, improve more proactive communication and feeling secure in one's self.

I firmly believe we cannot do work without applying a feminist, queer intersectional lens into the healing we embark on together. One cannot do therapy without addressing all these systemic oppressive systems at hand. It is essential to feel empowered in one's intersecting identities and to view them as strengths where you feel like you are the main character in your own life.

I enjoy working with couples, specifically non monogamous, polyamorous and kink or sex positive couples. I believe couples have their own identities that form as one unit where we can view the strengths in the relationship. There is a desire to come together and we just have to learn to translate the misunderstandings and miscommunication occurring by implementing more proactive communication, patience and understanding.